Hi Everyone,
As you may be aware, I am giving away Free Home Business Coaching, both on this blog and on Skype: dhpgolf. Why? This is my way of giving something back. On my journey of following my personal bliss, I have been blessed with the security of owning and operating a very stable home business. So, I don't need the money. I have learned that by helping you to get what you truly want and desire most in you life, to help you learn to "Follow Your Bliss", I will get what I want and desire most, the gleeful joy of knowing that I made a difference in the world.
My #1 passion in life is to be able to make a difference in the world with the gifts that I have been given. Now gifts are nothing without the education, skill development and willingness to learn and grow that is necessary for to make your dreams, goals, and desires a reality. You have heard and seen the phrase "Follow Your Bliss" all over my stuff for the past few months, and this is not a new idea by any means. What I am going to present to you today just may change your perception of this concept. And this may also shine some light on why so many people choose an easier, softer way of life.
I have a Bachelor's Degree and I am 4 classes away from earning a Master's Degree in Training and Performance Improvement. But this is not the kind of education that I am referring to here. The kind of education that is required to "Follow Your Bliss" comes from practicing a very simple principle that Mark Joyner teaches, "You must ruthlessly and mercilessly root out all negative personality traits within you." Trust me when I tell you that the "school of hard knocks" education that comes from fully practicing this principle will teach you everything you need to know in order to truly "Follow Your Bliss".
Let take a closer look at this idea. First of all, what in the world is a negative personality trait? Even more basic, what is a personality trait? Here are the top 5 definitions of personality from dictionary.com:
| 1. | the visible aspect of one's character as it impresses others: He has a pleasing personality. |
| 2. | a person as an embodiment of a collection of qualities: He is a curious personality. |
| 3. | Psychology. | a. | the sum total of the physical, mental, emotional, and social characteristics of an individual. | | b. | the organized pattern of behavioral characteristics of the individual. | |
| 4. | the quality of being a person; existence as a self-conscious human being; personal identity. |
| 5. | the essential character of a person. |
So, anything about your personal collection of qualities that impresses others in a way that is less than pleasing would be considered a negative personality trait. What is your personal identity? What is your essential character?
Oh, I can hear it now, "You can't change your personality. People don't change like that." "You can't just go change who you are just like that. It's impossible."
I'm here to tell you and prove to you that not only is it possible to change your personality, but that it is REQUIRED in order to truly "Follow Your Bliss". Case in point (non-Christian bear with me): Jesus did it. Christians will recalled the story of Jesus as a young adult going into a rage in the Jewish temple over the fact that people were using the temple as their own personal market place. Over time, Jesus changed himself from the inside out to the point where he allowed himself to be crucified at the hands of the Roman Soldiers. If you don't know what it means to be crucified just click on the hyperlink. Jesus is the ultimate example of what it means to "Follow Your Bliss". Jesus loved his father, God, above all else and he changed from the inside out in order to live his life accordingly. What do you love more than anything else? As long as what you come up with doesn't entail harming others or yourself, then you have probably found your bliss. But, to "Follow Your Bliss" means to change yourself from the inside out. It means to do what you love most to the best of your ability, and make a difference in the world.
Yikes, I know. At this point you are either rolling up your sleeves to start working, or you are getting ready to stop reading my blog. You have either realized that to "Follow Your Bliss" means that you are going to work harder than you ever have before, or you have decided to take the easier, softer way. If you stick with the process of rooting out your negative personality traits and do the work to change yourself from the inside out, then you are now ready to be coached.
If you choose the easier softer way, then unfortunately your life will most likely be one of safety, mediocrity, and frankly not all that abundant. I wish you all the best, but you are not ready to be coached.
For those who are still reading and have decided that you want what I have, a passion to make a difference and the willingness to "ruthlessly and mercilessly root out all negative personality traits within you", then keep coming back. Over the next month or so, I will be laying out a step by step plan of action that with help you grow like you've never grown before.
I am absolutely ecstatic about the journey that we are going to take together as you now lay the foundation for a life of true happiness and abundance as you now "Follow Your Bliss".
Take Care,
David H. Paul
Your Home Business Coach
and Friend for Life
